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IN the past people differed in a lot of things. there were differences in lifestyles and habits and traditions. This is reflected in the marriage ceremonies, which marked the UAE community from other communities.
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As a tradition in the UAE, the setting of the wedding date marks the beginning of the bride’s preparation for her wedding. Although the groom is also put through a series of preparations, the bride’s preparations are naturally more elaborate and time consuming.
In preparation for her wedding, she is anointed with all sorts of traditional oils and perfumes from head to toe. Her body is rubbed with cleansing and conditioning oils and creams, the hands and feet are decorated with henna and the hair is washed with extracts of amber and jasmine. She is fed only the best of foods and her girlfriends prepare the best dishes which they share with her. Traditionally, she is not seen for forty days except for family members as she rests at home in preparation for her wedding day. Fine pieces of jewelry, perfumes, silk materials, and other necessary items are presented to her by the groom, from which she creates her elaborate trousseau .
The festivities usually take about one week before the wedding night. During that week, traditional music, continuous singing, and dancing take place reflecting the joy shared by the bride’s and the groom’s family. Nowadays, although most weddings are celebrated in less than one week, they are just as elaborate and ceremonial, if not more.
A few days before the wedding night is the henna night or Laylat Al Henna which is a very special night for the bride since it is a ladies’ night only. On this night, the bride’s hands and feet are decorated with henna, which is a dark brown paste made from the henna plant. When left on the skin for some time, the henna leaves a dark red
The henna night is a time for all the bride’s sisters, female family members(www.wedding.ae), and girlfriends to get together and sing and dance.
Another traditional element of the UAE customs is the Arabian Kohl or eyeliner. The bride, as well as many other UAE women, like to line their eyes on almost all occasions. Famous for their beautiful, large, and black eyes, the UAE women have used the Arabian kohl for many years.
After her eyes are lined, her hair is perfumed and her hands and feet are decorated with henna, the bride is ready for her wedding night. The back-to-back feasts and celebrations involve both men and women who usually celebrate separately(www.wedding.ae). Although different areas of the country may have slight differences in their celebrations and customs, the general traditions are the same throughout the country most of which are still adhered to.
In 1992, under the directives of His Highness Sheikh Zayed Bin Sultan Al Nahyan, a Marriage Fund was set up in order to limit over-spending on weddings and celebrations. The fund was aimed at encouraging the UAE men to marry UAE women, assisting in covering the expenses of both the wedding and the setting-up of a family, increasing the birth rate, and discouraging men from marrying foreigners.
The Fund provides between Dh 60,000 to Dh 70,000 depending on certain criteria to young UAE nationals. In tandem with this, the government has launched a campaign aimed at persuading UAE fathers to accept lower dowries. It has also built special wedding halls where receptions can take place without incurring the expenses associated with expensive hotel receptions.
Under the directives and instructions from President His Highness Sheikh Zayed Bin Sultan Al Nahyan to curb soaring wedding expenses which burden the youth, the UAE’s Cabinet, on the 29th of September, 1997 approved a letter from the Justice and Islamic Affairs Minister outlining a draft law defining dowries(www.uaezayed.com), the money paid by a groom to his bride, under Islamic Law, at Dh 20,000, divorce compensation at Dh 30,000, and wedding parties should not exceed one day.
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Thus we see that the marriage of fashion in the UAE is not much different than it is now. The husband was to pay the dowry demands and the costs of marriage. The most important thing done by the bride before the wedding night is the private night preparation for the wedding. And all this is an expensive proposition .To reduce this, Sheikh Zayed supported youth by the Marriage Fund(www.uaezayed.com), as well as the State to enact laws to reduce the dowry. I suggest that we keep on Marriage Fund and all fathers must pay less of the cost to one dowry.
References:
http://www.wedding.ae/UAE_Dubai_wedding_invitation_gifts_dress_planners.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Arab_Emirates
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Arab_Emirates
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